What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away. 1 Corinthians 7:29-31
“When Jesus calls the young man to enter into the situation where faith is possible, he does it only with the aim of making the man have faith in Him, that is to say, He calls Him into fellowship with himself. In the last resort what matters is not what the man does, but only his faith in Jesus as the Son of God and Mediator.
At all events poverty or riches, marriage or celibacy, a profession or the lack of it, have in the last resort nothing to do with it-everything depends on faith alone. So far then we are quite right; it is possible to have wealth and the possession of this world’s goods and to believe in Christ-so that a man may have these goods as one who has them not.
But this is an ultimate possibility of the Christian life, only within our capacity in so far as we await with earnest expectation the immediate return of Christ. It is by no means the first and the simplest possibility. The paradoxical understanding of the commandments has its Christian justification, but it must never lead to the abandoning of the single-minded understanding of the commandments.
This is only possible and right for somebody who has already at some point or other in his life put into action his single-minded understanding, somebody who thus lives with Christ as his disciple and in anticipation of the end. This is the infinitely more difficult, and humanly speaking “impossible possibility,” to interpret the call of Jesus in this paradoxical way. And it is just this paradoxical element which exposes his call to the constant danger of being transformed into its very opposite, and used as an excuse for shirking the necessity of concrete obedience.
Anybody who does not feel that he would be much happier were he only permitted to understand and obey the commandments of Jesus in a straightforward literal way, and e.g. surrender all his possessions at his bidding rather than cling to them, has no right to this paradoxical interpretation of Jesus’ words. We have to hold the two together in mind all the time.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer (1906-1945) in The Cost of Discipleship (New York: Macmillan, 1979) 90-91. Click here to download this classic work.
Today’s Scripture teaches us to live differently from the world, to have marriages that are missional, and to have possessions but not be controlled by them.
Bonhoeffer reminds us to hold both sides of these topics in mind all the time. This is wise. Let me explain.
If we don’t hold both in mind all the time, here’s what can happen. We obey the simple command of God to enjoy and share his material blessings. Then He blesses us again. At that moment, we can forget the Giver and just celebrate the gift.
So, in plain terms, and everyone can do this. Give thanks for God’s blessings but always use them obediently. I call it paradoxical possession because you possess them and you don’t simultaneously as a conduit.
Think of a pipe in your home. It simultaneous has water in it and does not have water in it. When it does its job, water flows. Life is good. And more will flow.
When you live like a conduit? God sees your faithfulness and supply more. You need not try to make yourself wealth through disobedient keeping like the rich fool. Hopefully this is making sense.
As you think about your own life, try to keep the possible and the impossible in view always. That will keep you living by faith. You can do this. God’s got you.
And today, I thank God for Jenni. It’s her birthday. And I am thankful we have a missional marriage. I praise God she finds life by enjoying and sharing God’s blessings with me.
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