My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. John 15:12
“Professors do not properly consider the subject, nor dwell enough upon the ends of Christian fellowship. It is too little thought of or too little studied. They do not stir up their hearts to love one another, because they do not properly consider how much they are called to the exercise of this holy and tender affection. The largeness of some of our churches, might be thought by some to be a cause of the deficiency, and I should think so, if it did not exist in an equal degree in smaller ones.
Still, however, it must be admitted, that a body of four, five, or six hundred members scattered over the whole expanse of a large town and neighbourhood, cannot have much opportunity for personal acquaintance, and for the interchange of Christian sympathy. To meet this case, there should be a more numerous eldership than usually exists, and district associations and meetings of the members should be promoted. I am inclined to think, that the deficiency is in many cases, and in no small measure, to be traced to the pulpit.
If the pastor be not a man of love, and a preacher of love; if he do not both by his sermons and his example, breathe a spirit of affection into his people, and labour to the uttermost to do so, there will be a visible want of this essential feature of church prosperity. It has not been with any of us, perhaps, sufficiently an object to promote the love of the brethren. We have preached doctrines, experience and morality, faith and hope; but has charity, the greatest of the three graces, been sufficiently inculcated?
But after all, the chief causes of the deficiency of love, are still to be mentioned; and these are, the want of true love to Christ, and a selfish worldly-mindedness. If we loved Christ more, we should inevitably love one another more, since we love them for His sake. If we felt as we ought, His amazing love to us, we should love Him more fervently in return: and then, as a necessary consequence, we should be more tenderly attached to His people; nor would less worldly-mindedness, more spirituality of mind, fail to be followed with the same effect.
The most eminent Christians are most tenderly disposed towards God’s dear children and Christ’s dear saints. A love of riches or of grandeur is a cold and selfish temper; it concentrates a man’s attention upon himself, and of course withdraws his affection from the church. The present divided and alienated state of the Christian world in this country, is a plain proof, that notwithstanding the prevalence of evangelical sentiment, love to Christ is by no means so ardent as it appears to be.”
John Angell James in The Christian Professor Addressed: In a Series of Counsels and Cautions to the Members of Christian Churches (New York: Appleton, 1838) 169-171.
In the 1800’s the churches were growing large, but they were not necessarily growing in love. In the boom of the industrial revolution when many thought “bigger is better” this thinking spread into the church causing it, at least in part, to lose focus on the command of Christ. Though this was written almost two centuries ago, it sounds mysteriously contemporary.
If you are a pastor, hear this as a friendly reminder. Don’t worry about how large your church is! Aim at growing your love for Christ. From there, focus on nurturing a heart for God in each person you serve. Do this while simultaneously helping people avoid “selfish worldly-mindedness.” Speak openly about what the Word teaches so those you serve can differentiate godliness from worldly thinking.
And if you are not a pastor, share this post with your pastor. Also pray for your pastor to grow as a “preacher of love,” so that your church grows as a community known not for its size but for its “interchange of Christian sympathy.”
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