Archives by: Gary Hoag

As Jesus and His disciples were on their way, He came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to Him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what He said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to Him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:38-42

“You are very concerned with making the right choices about your work. You have so many options that you are constantly overwhelmed by the question “What should I do and what should I not do?” You are asked to respond to many concrete needs. There are people to visit, people to receive, people to simply be with. There are issues that beg for attention, books it seems important to read, and works of art to be seen. But what of all this truly deserves your time?

Start by not allowing these people and issues to possess you. As long as you think that you need them to be yourself, you are not really free. Much of their urgency comes from your own need to be accepted and affirmed. You have to keep going back to the source: God’s love for you. In many ways, you still want to set your own agenda. You act as if you have to choose among many things, which all seem equally important. But you have not fully surrendered yourself to God’s guidance. You keep fighting with God over who is in control.”

Try to give your agenda to God. Keep saying, “Your will be done, not mine.” Give every part of your heart and your time to God and let God tell you what to do, where to go, when and how to respond. God does not want you to destroy yourself. Exhaustion, burnout, and depression are not signs that you are doing God’s will. God is gentle and loving. God desires to give you a deep sense of safety in God’s love. Once you have allowed yourself to experience that love fully, you will be better able to discern who you are being sent to in God’s name. It is not easy to give your agenda to God. But the more you do so, the more “clock time” becomes “God’s time,” and God’s time is always the fullness of time.”

Henri Nouwen in The Inner Voice of Love: A Journey Through Anguish to Freedom (New York: Image, 1998) 105-106.

In my work, I have allowed people and issues to possess me, which means often my work has enslaved me. Not only does this steal my joy. It robs me from the opportunity to extend rich generosity. Perhaps you can relate?

When I revisit today’s Scripture, I find myself in the example of Martha. She sees all the work that need to be done. Unlike Mary, she is distracted from the one thing that she should have been focused on: Jesus.

I am learning that when I give my agenda to God and focus on the one thing that is needful for me, namely, receiving whatever Jesus has for me daily, the rest somehow falls into place and gets sorted.

This is actually the best kind of giving too. When we give our agenda to the Father and receive from Jesus whatever He has for us, we are empowered by the Spirit to live, give, serve, and love generously.

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It is a sin to despise one’s neighbor, but blessed is the one who is kind to the needy. Proverbs 14:21

“I want to help. I want to do something for people in need. I want to offer consolation to those who are in grief and alleviate the suffering of those who are in pain. There is obviously nothing wrong with that desire. It is a noble and grace-filled desire. But unless I realize that God’s blessing is coming to me from those I want to serve, my help will be short-lived, and soon I will be burned out.

How is it possible to keep caring for the poor when the poor only get poorer? How is it possible to keep nursing the sick when they are not getting better? How can I keep consoling the dying when their deaths only bring me more grief? The answer is that they all hold a blessing for me, a blessing that I need to receive.

Ministry is, first of all, receiving God’s blessing from those to whom we minister. What is this blessing? It is a glimpse of the face of God. Seeing God is what heaven is all about! We can see God in the face of Jesus, and we can see the face of Jesus in all those who need our care… We so much need a blessing. The poor are waiting to bless us.”

Henri Nouwen in Here and Now: Living in the Spirit (New York: Crossroad, 1994) 82-83.

Generosity is often viewed as going one direction, from the giver to the receiver. Nouwen alerts us today that the reason God desires that we help the needy is because they have a blessing for us.

Right now, GTP and GenerousChurch staff are in Southeast Asia doing a multi-day Generosity Design Lab for a team from the Philippines to help them create a generosity curriculum.

Why do this? Is it to generate greater giving from God’s people? That’s part of it, for sure, but that’s only half the picture. The goal must never just be to get people to give more money to solve problems.

When we approach poverty for example as solving a problem, we will be endlessly disappointed because the poor will always be with us. So what is the alternative? God wants us to do it to show love and when we do we receive it in return.

When we approach it as showing love, we receive love in return and the blessing we receive often outweighs the blessing we give. So, let me take you back to the generosity curriculum. Why help create it?

With our friends at Christian Stewardship Association (Philippines), we want to multiply stewards across the Philippines who understand that generous living will come with a blessing that far outweighs the cost.

Why? This brings heaven to earth! It helps people meet Jesus one person at a time or one church at a time. As groups use the contextualized generosity curriculum, we unleash multitudes of generous disciples who give and receive blessing.

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The Lord had said to Abram, “Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you.” Genesis 12:1

“The call to community as we hear it from our Lord is the call to move away from the ordinary and proper places. Leave your father and mother. Let the dead bury their dead. Keep your hand on the plow and not look back. Sell what you own, give the money to the poor, and come follow me (Luke 14:26; 9:60, 62; 18:22). The Gospels confront us with this persistent voice inviting us to move from where it is comfortable, from where we want to stay, from where we feel at home.

Why is this so central? It is central because in voluntary displacement, we cast off the illusion of “having it together” and thus begin to experience our true condition, which is that we, like everyone else, are pilgrims on the way, sinners in need of grace. Through voluntary displacement, we counteract the tendency to become settled in a false comfort and to forget the fundamentally unsettled position that we share with all people. Voluntary displacement leads us to the existential recognition of our inner brokenness and thus brings us to a deeper solidarity with the brokenness of our fellow human beings.

Community, as the place of compassion, therefore, always requires displacement. The Greek word for church, ekklesia – from ek = out, and kaleo – call – indicates that as a Christian community we are people who together are called out of our familiar places to unknown territories, out of our ordinary and proper places to the places where people hurt and where we can experience with them our common human brokenness and our common need for healing.”

Henri Nouwen in Compassion: A Reflection on the Christian Life (New York: Image, 1996) 61-62.

Hope you like the new header photo. I like to take a 3 mile walk with Grace St. Catherine (our German Shorthaired Pointer) and dawn in the summer. I felt God’s presence with me when I saw the sunrise through this tree.

If we think back to God’s call to Abraham it was to leave his comfort zone and go to a place that God would show him. That’s the call to each of us as followers of Jesus. To experience real community we must choose voluntary displacement.

I’m writing a devotional book with a friend, Travis Shelton, entitled Community. As I explored this idea in Nouwen’s thinking this morning, I am struck by the way it leads to generous living. We abandon the cultural trappings and follow Jesus.

He directs us to go, sell, and give when the world tells us to stop, buy, and keep. He shows us that only in selling and giving do we actually get what we are looking for: life a hundred times better than we can make it on our own.

So, on this Lord’s day, ask God what voluntary displacement looks like for you. What ordinary and proper places do you need to leave in order to experience community and grasp generous living with fellow humans?

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One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God. When morning came, He called His disciples to Him and chose twelve of them, whom He also designated apostles: Simon (whom he named Peter), his brother Andrew, James, John, Philip, Bartholomew, Matthew, Thomas, James son of Alphaeus, Simon who was called the Zealot, Judas son of James, and Judas Iscariot, who became a traitor.

He went down with them and stood on a level place. A large crowd of His disciples was there and a great number of people from all over Judea, from Jerusalem, and from the coastal region around Tyre and Sidon, who had come to hear Him and to be healed of their diseases. Those troubled by impure spirits were cured, and the people all tried to touch Him, because power was coming from Him and healing them all. Luke 6:12-19

“The word discipleship and the word discipline are the same word — that has always fascinated me. Once you have made the choice to say, “Yes, I want to follow Jesus,” the question is, “What disciplines will help me remain faithful to that choice?” If we want to be disciples of Jesus, we have to live a disciplined life…

The word discipline means “the effort to create some space in which God can act.” Discipline means to prevent everything in your life from being filled up. Discipline means that somewhere you’re not occupied, and certainly not preoccupied. In the spiritual life, discipline means to create that space in which something can happen that you hadn’t planned or counted on.

I think three disciplines are important for us to remain faithful, so we not only become disciples, but also remain disciples. These disciplines are contained in one passage from Scripture with which we’re familiar, but one that we may be surprised to find speaks about discipline…

[Today’s Scripture] is a beautiful story that moves from night to morning to afternoon. Jesus spent the night in solitude with God. In the morning, he gathered his apostles around him and formed community. In the afternoon, with his apostles, he went out and preached the Word and healed the sick.

Notice the order—from solitude to community to ministry. The night is for solitude; the morning for community; the afternoon for ministry. So often in ministry, I have wanted to do it by myself. If it didn’t work, I went to others and said, “Please!” searching for a community to help me. If that didn’t work, maybe I’d start praying.

But the order that Jesus teaches us is the reverse. It begins by being with God in solitude; then it creates a fellowship, a community of people with whom the mission is being lived; and finally this community goes out together to heal and to proclaim good news.

I believe you can look at solitude, community, and ministry as three disciplines by which we create space for God. If we create space in which God can act and speak, something surprising will happen. You and I are called to these disciplines if we want to be disciples.”

Henri Nouwen in Community, edited by Stephen Lazarus (Orbis, 2021) excerpts from chapter 1.

I hope you appreciated this reading. If our living, giving, serving, and loving flows from solitude to community to ministry, we will surely dispense the power, blessing, and abundance of Christ with rich generosity.

Think about this as it relates to your life in the three areas. What does solitude look like for you? Do you have an intimate prayer life that propels you to community. I find that the Lectio 365 app helps me with this daily.

How about the discipline of community? It is easy for us (myself included) to work alone. This results in personal isolation and growth comes by addition. The example of Jesus causes our service to bless others and grow by multiplication.

Lastly, reflect on the discipline of ministry. Notice power came from Jesus because He tapped into the Father in solitude first. Are you tapped out or tapped to the Father? Attuning to this will ensure our generous service.

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“Build houses and settle down; plant gardens and eat what they produce. Marry and have sons and daughters; find wives for your sons and give your daughters in marriage, so that they too may have sons and daughters. Increase in number there; do not decrease. Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.” Jeremiah 29:5-7

“Addiction” might be the best word to explain the lostness that so deeply permeates society. Our addiction make us cling to what the world proclaims as the keys to self-fulfillment: accumulation of wealth and power; attainment of status and admiration; lavish consumption of food and drink, and sexual gratification without distinguishing between lust and love. These addictions create expectations that cannot but fail to satisfy our deepest needs. As long as we live within the world’s delusions, our addictions condemn us to futile quests in “the distant country,” leaving us to face an endless series of disillusionments while our sense of self remains unfulfilled. In these days of increasing addictions, we have wandered far away from our Father’s home. The addicted life can aptly be designated a life lived in “a distant country.” It is from there that our cry for deliverance rises up.”

Henri Nouwen in The Return of the Prodigal Son: A Story of Homecoming (Crown Publishing, 2013) 42.

Most people who live in “the distant country” don’t realize how addictions control them. They’ve been deluded to seek their own prosperity rather the prosperity of the place where God has planted them.

Related to generosity, rather than enjoy and share God’s blessings, they accumulate wealth and power and pursue lavish consumption of food and drink. These things will never satisfy. They only leave us disillusioned.

What is the pathway from “the distant country” to experience the only peace and prosperity that satisfies? We must stop aiming at self-fulfillment and focus on knowing Christ who is the only One who satisfies.

This weekend people across USA celebrate Independence Day. Let’s instead think about dependence on Christ and interdependence with one another. Ponder what addictions hold you captive. Fast from them and feast on Jesus. See what happens.

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But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ. Philippians 3:7-8

“Christian leaders cannot simply be persons who have well-informed opinions about the burning issues of our time. Their leadership must be rooted in the permanent, intimate relationship with the incarnate Word, Jesus, and they need to find there the source for their words, advice, and guidance.

Through the disciplines of contemplative prayer, Christian leaders have to learn to listen again and again to the voice of love and to find there the wisdom and courage to address whatever issue presents itself to them. Dealing with burning issues without being rooted in a deep personal relationship with God easily leads to divisiveness because, before we know it, our sense of self is caught up in our opinion about a given subject.

But when we are securely rooted in personal intimacy with the source of life, it will be possible to remain flexible without being relativistic, convinced without being rigid, willing to confront without being offensive, gentle and forgiving without being soft, and true witnesses without being manipulative. For Christian leadership to be truly fruitful in the future, a movement from the moral to the mystical is required.”

Henri Nouwen in In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership (1989) 22.

I had a call yesterday with a fellow CEO. In the call we discussed that our role was really to discern direction from God and to depend on God to supply where God guided. Our work is discerning and depending.

Or as Nouwen might say, our role is mystical.

If we want to live generous lives, we must be rooted deeply in a relationship with Jesus. Out of that relationship, contemplative prayer comes into view as listening to the voice of love and finding wisdom for each day.

This guides our generous living, giving, serving, and loving.

Many of you may we wondering how GTP is doing in pursuit of that major grant. I have told you for days that we were praying for 200+ givers from 32+ countries. The number was only 120 from 18 countries on 6 June 2022.

As of yesterday the total hit 201 givers from 46 countries.

That is not a typo. We did it. You did it. All over the world, you stepped up. Thanks for giving so that God’s workers in hard places would not get a handout that creates a dependency but a hand up to build them as disciples.

And may each of us be mystical disciples who discern direction from God and radically depend on God.

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For none of us lives for ourselves alone, and none of us dies for ourselves alone. Romans 14:7

“The word community has many connotations, some positive, some negative. Community can make us think of a safe togetherness, shared meals, common goals, and joyful celebrations. It also can call forth images of sectarian exclusivity, in-group language, self-satisfied isolation, and romantic naiveté. However, community is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.”

Henri Nouwen in Bread for the Journey (New York: HarperCollins eBook) reading for 23 January.

Over the past month it’s been awesome to watch people from the global community step up and share gifts large and small with GTP to help empower national workers in challenging places to build trust and grow local giving.

Most givers will never meet the people that the giving will touch. They will never meet the pastor in Belize, the Sunday School teacher in Malawi, or the ministry administrator in Indonesia. But God sees it all.

And He sees the hearts of these givers who realize that they are alive not for themselves but for others in the community of faith. I am so thankful to watch this community in action.

That said, I am still praying for 4 more givers today. Could you share $5 or $10 with GTP today to help people in poor places. Click here to give. I’m unashamedly asking because if we hit the mark it will help us secure a major grant.

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I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now. Philippians 1:3-5

“Fundraising is proclaiming what we believe in such a way that we offer other people an opportunity to participate with us in our vision and mission. Fundraising is precisely the opposite of begging. When we seek to raise funds we are not saying, “Please, could you help us out because lately it’s been hard.” Rather, we are declaring, “We have a vision that is amazing and exciting. We are inviting you to invest yourself through the resources that God has given you—your energy, your prayers, and your money—in this work to which God has called us.”

Henri Nouwen in The Spirituality of Fundraising (New York: Henri Nouwen Society, 2004) 3-4. If you want a PDF copy of this amazing little ebook, reply to this email. I will share it with you freely.

Many times people think of fundraising as begging. I love that Nouwen emphasizes that it’s the opposite of that. It’s inviting people to invest their energy, prayers, and money in God’s amazing and exciting work.

But, let’s take a minute to deconstruct why fundraising is not begging. If we said, “Can you please give me some of your money.” That’s begging. And the thinking is off base in two ways.

Firstly, the gift goes to God and not to me. When we invite people to give, we are like Levites facilitating their act of worship which is giving to God. And secondly, it’s not their money; they are only stewards.

So, since all we possess belongs to God, it’s actually the role of God’s workers to encourage each other to deploy God’s resources to the things God cares about. Again, let me know if you want this ebook by Nouwen.

It’s a great tool for ministry worker’s whose boards or fellow staff members say that “fundraising is begging” because it helps them see a higher and deeply biblical perspective in a short time. It’s a quick read.

And, please, to help GTP empower national workers to build trust and grow local giving in some of the hardest places on earth, click here to make a gift today. We are praying for 10 more new givers by Thursday to meet a foundation challenge.

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Pray continually. 1 Thessalonians 5:17

“We often wonder what we can do for others, especially for those in great need. It is not a sign of powerlessness when we say: “We must pray for one another.” To pray for one another is, first of all, to acknowledge, in the presence of God, that we belong to each other as children of the same God. Without this acknowledgement of human solidarity, what we do for one another does not flow from who we truly are. We re brothers and sisters, not competitors or rivals. We are children of one God, not partisans of different gods.”

Henri Nouwen in Here and Now: Living in the Spirit (New York: Crossroad, 1994) 22.

I’ve switched from reading one of my favorite ancient authors, Basil of Caesarea, to one of my favorite modern ones. Henri Nouwen. I hope the readings this week inspire you!

Praying for people in great need is not a “sign of powerlessness” but rather an acknowledgement that we belong to each other and that we are standing together in “human solidarity” with and for each other.

Do you see needs around you? Pray for God’s grace on them and provision for them, and call others to pray. This is how we care for each other as brothers and sisters.

I am praying for 14 more new givers to GTP in the next 3 days. Join me in praying for this and click here if you feel led to give. If we hit the goal we find out about a major grant in August.

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I know every bird in the mountains, and the insects in the fields are mine. Psalm 50:11

“The halcyon is a sea bird. It is accustomed to build its nest along the very shores, depositing its eggs in the sand itself; and it builds its nest almost in the middle of winter, a time when the sea is being dashed against the land by many violent windstorms.

Nevertheless, all the winds are calmed and the waves of the sea become quiet for seven days when the halcyon is sitting upon her eggs. In exactly that number of days it hatches its young. But, since there is need of food for the nestlings so that they may grow, the bountiful God provides for the tiny creatures seven more days. As all the sailors know this, they call the halcyon days.

These laws divine Providence has ordained concerning the irrational creature to encourage you to ask God from what pertains to your salvation. What wonders would not be performed for you, who have been made according to the image of God, when, indeed, for the sake of a bird so small the great and fearful sea is held in check, submitting to the command to be calm in the midst of winter?”

Basil of Caesarea (330-379) in Homily 8 on “Creation of Winged Creatures and Those Living in the Waters” in Exegetic Homilies, The Fathers of the Church, Volume 46 (CUAP, 2010) 127.

Today Basil points us to another bird, the halcyon, to remind us of God’s care.

This sea bird has it young in the dead of winter and yet our bountiful God cares for it. Fascinating that in the fourth century all sailors on the Mediterranean knew of this bird and how God helped it birth its young in winter! Our bountiful God stilled the seas for two weeks so that it could nurture its young.

This reminds us that creation shouts of God’s Providence and rich generosity toward us.

Is there something in creation where you live that reminds you of God’s faithful care. Perhaps it has turned to Summer and the flowers are blooming? Or it is now the rainy season so God is watering the land? Maybe where you live it has turned to harvest time and you are enjoying and sharing the fruit of the land?

Look for something in creation that reminds you of God’s care and give thanks today.

On this Lord’s day, celebrate the reminder of God’s faithful care. Ask Him for whatever you need that pertains to your salvation. He will supply it. Also ask if you should increase your generosity. To make a gift to GTP, click here. We are still praying for 21 new givers by 30 June 2022 to secure a major grant. A gift of any size counts.

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