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A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous. Proverbs 13:22

“In Old Testament times, it was essential that parents pass land ownership to their children and grandchildren. Many people were too poor to buy land. With no inheritance, they would end up enslaved or unable to care for their parents and grandparents, who normally lived on the property with them. Hence they were told, “A good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children” (Proverbs 13:22, NIV).

What’s different about inheritance in our culture? Today in America and many other affluent countries, inheritances are usually windfalls coming to people who live separately from their parents; have regular sources of income generated by their own work, skills, saving, and investing; and have far more than they need…When such people inherit a farm, house, or other real estate, what becomes of it? Typically, they sell it. The inheritance doesn’t enhance their work; it simply increases their standard of living, sometimes dramatically.

I consider it important not to leave money to our daughters that would interfere with my sons-in-law’s responsibility to provide for them. Fortunately, my sons-in-law are very responsible, and I trust them fully. But how dare any of us, whether family or friends or government, allow our financial subsidies to deny the character-building privilege and divine calling of a man to work to provide for his wife and children? Many well-meaning parents have caused serious marital conflicts by leaving money to their grown children.”

Randy Alcorn in Managing God’s Money: A Biblical Guide (Carol Stream: Tyndale, 2011) 207-208.

Though today’s biblical text is often used to argue for leaving large sums of money to children, it actually communicates the opposite. When it says “a good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children,” in biblical terms, that means leave your offspring a place, a trade, and deep faith. And notice, the biblical behavior presented in the proverb stands in contrast to the sinner who stores up wealth. God will redeploy it to those who will steward it well.

Follow Alcorn’s advice. Don’t leave money to your children. Help them get rolling while you are living, but don’t make them have to liquidate the pile of assets that God entrusted to you. You could ruin them and rob them of the “character-building privilege” of doing hard work, earning a living, and caring for the needs of their family.

Yesterday, Jenni and I flew to Florida for my brother’s inauguration as president of Warner University. We are excited for David and his wife Joanna, and this new season of service that God has for them. We are here with my parents, and I am so thankful for the inheritance they gave David, Heather and me. They helped us get a place, taught us how to work, and most importantly, imparted to us a deep faith in Jesus Christ.

For I received from the Lord what I also passed on to you: The Lord Jesus, on the night He was betrayed, took bread, and when He had given thanks, He broke it and said, “This is My body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of Me.” In the same way, after supper He took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in My blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of Me.” For whenever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until He comes. 1 Corinthians 11:23-26

“Reflection helps us listen to our life, previewing and reviewing our days with thanksgiving. However, if we are not practicing any of the myriad options for the discipline of reflection, we miss so much of what the Lord has in store for us to receive from his generous and loving hand. The more we attend to the practice of reflection the more we ultimately learn, discover and receive from God.

There are countless ways to practice reflective disciplines: journaling, photography, creative arts, holy conversations, pausing, noticing, attending, wondering, and pondering. We can reflect alone and in the quietness of solitude, and we can reflect with a loved one in the daily-ness of our relational connections. We can sit with a single verse or segment of the biblical text; hold that verse(s) prayerfully or interview the text in an exploratory fashion.

The key to unlocking this spiritual practice is recognizing why we do so. I would suggest that the singularly most important reason is because we are generally a forgetful people…The pinnacle call to remembrance comes when Jesus institutes the Lord’s Supper as a reflective practice…The life, death and resurrection of Jesus is wrapped up in this incredible time…We remember and we give thanks, over and over again, in similar fashion each time. Why? So that we never ever forget.”

Stephen Macchia in SILENCIO, 47th edition, “Reflection: Remember & Give Thanks” a resource of Leadership Transformations, Inc., November 2016.

As I think about “inheritance” in biblical terms which comprises passing on a place, teaching a trade, and sharing our faith with our children, helping them learn to reflect with gratitude comes into view as a vital exercise that must be included.

For Jenni and me, sitting in quietness and solitude and thinking about the implications of a Bible verse are life giving daily disciplines. Sammy loves to experience the wonder of God’s extravagance in creation, while Sophie loves to journal. What about you? Do you have a daily practice that helps you reflect on all that our generous God is doing around you and for you?

Macchia rightly notes that perhaps the greatest reflective exercise is the Lord’s Supper. It’s my favorite part of church every Sunday. When we are in Denver we attend Bridgeway Community Church, as our son, Sammy, helped plant the church just over two years ago.

Each week we proclaim the same three short statements in the service so we never forget them: “Christ died. Christ is risen. Christ will come again.” When we pass on our faith to our children as an inheritance, sometimes it comes back to bless us. I know that part of the service blesses Jenni and me every week!

Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4

“Build into your family life regular patterns that remind you that all of your money belongs to God. Every Christmas, our family begins the morning by reading Luke 2, praying, and then deciding where our “Christmas gift” will go for the year. Each year, one family member gets to suggest to which charity the gift goes, and how much, and then we discuss it until we come to consensus.

Teach your children to be extravagant with the resources God has entrusted to them. For example, when you go out to eat, represent Christ to the person who serves you. When appropriate, let the waiter or waitress see or discover that you are a Christ-following family by asking them when you pray if there is anything they need prayer for. Because most waitstaff have experienced Christians as among the rudest people and worst tippers they serve, give them a far bigger tip then they would likely receive from anyone else regardless of the level of service. Generosity to all, not only to those in need but to everyone, is an expression of God’s graciousness to us, and helps us to trust Him even more.”

Kara Powell and Chap Clark in Sticky Faith: Everyday Ideas to Build Lasting Faith in Your Kids (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2011) 43, 184

Children follow consistent examples. They do. They celebrate them as “role models.” When fathers (and mothers too) live inconsistently, that is to say, their walk does not match their talk, in Pauline terms it “exasperates” children. It does! There’s nothing worse for kids than parents saying one thing and doing another. No wonder the Apostle Paul calls for consistency in guiding children in the training and instruction of the Lord.

What’s this look like practically?

Powell and Clark suggest that our family lives should have regular activities that teach our children about God’s gracious generosity toward us. Repetitive practices like the two examples mentioned above teach children to be generous. Jenni and I have found this to be true with our children which are now grown.  If you want to leave a great inheritance to your children, do intentional family activities (over and over) to teach them how to live, give, serve, and love like Jesus.

For truly, I say to you, whoever gives you a cup of water to drink because you belong to Christ will by no means lose his reward. Mark 9:41

“The Bible says God is a rewarder. The giving you do on earth will result in eternal rewards. Even the smallest generous action such as giving a cup of water in Jesus’ name, merits rewards.

Thinking through the implications of this truths, my own belief is that you get no eternal reward for assets given at death. You don’t have any choice. You are leaving it all anyway!

How can you receive a reward for something you kept your entire life and were forced to give only at death? God will reward you later for your sacrifices now, for your faith shown now, for your unselfishness now in this life.”

Ron Blue with Jeremy White in Splitting Heirs (Chicago: Northfield, 2004) 102-103.

As I read resources to develop a well-rounded biblical view of “inheritance” for our thinking, Blue reminds us simply to do our giving while we are living because we will receive no rewards for what is done after we are dead. Good advice!

If we do this, we also model obedience for our children (and children’s children) and we pass on a legacy of generosity, because as the saying goes, “more is caught than taught.” Those after us will follow what we do more than what we say.

Heavenly Father, by your Holy Spirit, guide me while I am living regarding my giving, so that my life reflects your generosity to my children and children’s children, and so I receive rewards for obedience to lay at your feet in grateful worship. Make it so I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Colossians 3:12

“Lewis was a truly modest man. If his books came naturally into our conversation, he would talk about them with the same detachment as in discussing some stranger’s works. But he had no interest as far as I could see in his literary or theological position in the world. One evening this came up rather naturally.

We had been talking about one of our favorite books, Malory’s Morte d’Arthur, and I mentioned how disappointed I sometimes felt when, say, Sir Launcelot went out to deliver a helpless lady from some peril or other. Then, just at the point where you can’t admire him enough for his selflessness, he explains to someone, as though it was the most natural thing in the world, that he is doing it to “win worship” – that is, to increase his reputation. We recognized it as an inheritance from Paganism.

Without intending any embarrassment, I asked Lewis if he was ever aware of the fact that regardless of his intentions, he was “winning worship” from his books. He said in the low, still voice, and with the deepest and most complete humility I’ve ever observed in anyone, “One cannot be too careful not to think of it.” The house, the garden, the whole universe seemed hushed for a moment, and then we began talking again.”

Walter Hooper recounting his conversation with C.S. Lewis in the introduction to The Weight of Glory by C.S. Lewis, dated 7 March 1980 at Oxford, revised edition (New York: Harper Collins, 1980) 13-14.

In exploring the works of C.S. Lewis for “inheritance” I came upon a pleasant surprise. Hooper’s recollection of this conversation with Lewis is absolutely priceless! It gives us a glimpse into the humble heart of one of the greatest authors of all time, the favorite of many in the modern era, including me.

The inheritance of C.S. Lewis to readers like you and me is not his brilliance or even his books. It’s his complete humility. Lord, make us people who clothe ourselves with complete humility, so that with great care, everything we say and do generously glorifies You! May this be our inheritance to our children and our children’s children!

I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also. 2 Timothy 1:5

“The Bible is a treasure. It contains enough to make us rich for time and eternity. It contains the secret of happy living. It contains the key of heaven. It contains the title-deeds of an inheritance incorruptible, and that facets not away. It contains the pearl of great price.”

James Hamilton (1814-1867) Scottish author and Presbyterian minister in Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers, compiled by Josiah Hotchkiss Gilbert (New York: Wilbur B. Ketcham, 1895) 80.

As I explore “inheritance” in the Scriptures, I find that God’s Word contains unfathomable and incorruptible riches, including the greatest thing everyone needs: light for living now and life eternal in Christ. As Hamilton notes, it’s a great inheritance because “it contains enough to make us rich for time and eternity.”

Know anyone who is spiritually destitute and lost in darkness today? Ask God to give you an opportunity to share the riches of Christ with them. The inheritance you received (having been qualified or made right by the work of Christ on the cross) gives you light for living now and life eternal in Christ. It’s an inheritance to enjoy and share!

Today I honor my mother, Patsy Hoag, as it is her birthday! She has given me an inheritance incorruptible worth more than all the riches in the world. She imparted to me a deep faith in Jesus Christ that lived in her mother, Betty, that lives in her, and now lives in me. She’s also modeled how to share it generously with the lost and is still gracious leading people to Christ even now.

Thanks Mom! I love you! Happy Birthday!

Then the King will say to those on his right, “Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world.” Matthew 25:34

“From the first, the inheritance promised by Yahweh to Abraham and his descendants was the land of Canaan. Israel’s possession of the land rested solely on the gift of Yahweh, and though only entered into with hard fighting, was not theirs by self-effort…The land was to be possessed forever, yet continued enjoyment and possession was conditional upon faithfulness to God…

In the NT…the inheritance is “in Christ”…Whereas the inheritance is His by right, in that He is the only begotten Son, it is possessed by the believer by grace, as he [or she] is adopted as a son [or a daughter] in Jesus Christ. The inheritance is the kingdom of God with all it’s blessings. While enjoyment of it begins in this life, insofar as the kingdom is already present, the full possession must be future.”

Walter Elwell in Evangelical Dictionary of Theology (Baker Reference Library; Grand Rapids, Baker, 2001) 607-608.

A friend of mine, John Stanley, author of Connected for Good, asked me to write on the biblical idea of inheritance for his website, Generosity Gameplan, so my meditations over the next few days reflects my research.

The world defines inheritance as “the money and possessions you leave to your children (and any grandchildren).” That is not surprising as the economy of this world presents money as the greatest thing anyone can possess, and thus, the best legacy anyone can leave.

Alternatively, the biblical account reports that God promises His people a place to enjoy a relationship to Him as an inheritance, also known as: land. Their failures are redeemed in Christ who brings everything together that is broken in God’s economy.

It’s fitting then, that Elwell would define “inheritance” from a biblical perspective, as life in the Kingdom with all its blessings, grasped only in Christ. Our enjoyment of it is partial at present and will fully be enjoyed in eternity.

Consequently, if you want to give a lasting and generous inheritance to your children and your grandchildren that is filled with blessings now and abundance in eternity, don’t give them money, give them Christ!

But You, Sovereign Lord, help me for Your name’s sake; out of the goodness of Your love, deliver me. For I am poor and needy, and my heart is wounded within me…With my mouth I will greatly extol the Lord; in the great throng of worshipers I will praise Him. For He stands at the right hand of the needy, to save their lives from those who would condemn them. Psalm 109: 21-22, 30-31

“The goodness of God is that which disposes Him to be kind, cordial, benevolent, and full of good will toward men. He is tenderhearted and of quick sympathy, and His unfailing attitude toward all moral beings is open, frank, and friendly. By His nature He is inclined to bestow blessedness and He takes holy pleasure in the happiness of His people.

That God is good is taught or implied on every page of the Bible and must be received as an article of faith as impregnable as the throne of God. It is a foundation stone for all sound thought about God and is necessary to moral sanity. To allow that God could be other than good is to deny the validity of all thought and end ill the negation of every moral judgment. If God is not good, then there can be no distinction between kindness and cruelty, and heaven can be hell and hell, heaven.

The goodness of God is the drive behind all the blessings He daily bestows upon us. God created us because He felt good in His heart and He redeemed us for the same reason.”

A. W. Tozer (1897-1963) in his classic work, Knowledge of the Holy, excerpt from “The Goodness of God” section of chapter 16.

This week from home I have calls with many EFCA pastors, so my mind turns to friends like Randy Discher who has faithfully served his church for about three decades. Randy loves A.W. Tozer so I read an excerpt of Knowledge of the Holy as I think about and pray for him and his peers today.

The goodness of God is the bedrock of our lives and all local church ministry. Out of God’s goodness flows our redemption and our collective redemptive efforts. We, the Church, are here to make known His goodness to all around us. This is true everywhere: from Littleton, Colorado to Guatemala City, Guatemala.

Whether or not you are needy and hurting today, worship the Lord in His goodness and see what happens. Do it. Take five minutes to praise God for His goodness.

I believe you will not only experience a deeper understanding of the love of our great God in this daily exercise. You will be satisfied and blessed. This is not an end but so that you are a means of sharing His goodness and blessing.

This is what generosity is all about, because all goodness (the biblical term for “generosity”), flows from God. We extol You, Sovereign Lord!

Those who have served well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus. 1 Timothy 3:13

“Labor a little now, and soon you shall find great rest, in truth, eternal joy; for if you continue faithful and diligent in doing, God will undoubtedly be faithful and generous in rewarding. Continue to have reasonable hope of gaining salvation, but do not act as though you were certain of it lest you grow indolent and proud.”

Thomas à Kempis (1380-1471) in The Imitation of Christ, excerpt from chapter 25, “Zeal in Amending our Lives” (Grand Rapids: CCEL) 38.

There’s much work to be done in Guatemala (pictured above) for the society to shift from corruption to credibility. It will only be possible with God’s help, diligent labor, and humility. Isn’t that true everywhere? Wherever God has placed you today, labor for Christ, knowing He will be generous in rewarding you.

The biblical idea of gaining standing and salvation is not linked to earning it, but living out the purpose of our faith. Our labor with love shines light wherever we go. Though Jenni and I have returned home from Guatemala and need some rest, our hearts are filled with joy that is but a glimpse of what we will experience in eternity.

You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord Himself, is the Rock eternal. Isaiah 26:3-4

“Seeing that we have such a God to trust to, let us rest upon Him with all our weight; let us resolutely drive out all unbelief, and endeavour to get rid of doubts and fears, which so much mar our comfort; since there is no excuse for fear where God is the foundation of our trust. A loving parent would be sorely grieved if his child could not trust him; and how ungenerous, how unkind is our conduct when we put so little confidence in our heavenly Father who has never failed us, and who never will. It were well if doubting were banished from the household of God…We have been in many trials, but we have never yet been cast where we could not find in our God all that we needed. Let us then be encouraged to trust in the Lord for ever, assured that His ever lasting strength will be, as it has been, our succor and stay.”

Charles Haddon Spurgeon (1834-1892) in Morning and Evening Devotions reading for the evening of July 5.

Jenni and I return home from Guatemala today after a full and fruitful long weekend of service. We are thankful that God has been our generous succor and stay. He has been generous to assist us in our times of need, to fill us richly with peace, and kind to support us with strength.

What about you today? Do the burdens of life weigh you down? Have doubts and fears overwhelmed you like a cloud? If so, pause to remember the faithfulness and generosity of our God. Re-read today’s text from Isaiah and trust in Him afresh today for He is our succor and stay!