One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24
“Character is so largely affected by associations that we cannot afford to be indifferent as to who and what our friends are. They write their names in our albums, but they do more, they help make us what we are. Be therefore careful in selecting them.”
M. Hulburd in Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers, compiled by Josiah Hotchkiss Gilbert (New York: Wilbur B. Ketcham, 1895) 255.
Last night I had the privilege of attending World Series game 5 with Dan Busby (pictured above). Better than the baseball action, which was unforgettable, was the special time with a faithful friend. His listening ear and wise words shape my mind and heart. This relates to generosity because his impact in my life would be priceless to measure.
Who writes their name in your proverbial album? Who is helping make you what you are? To grow in generosity this year, spend time in prayer and then identify a godly person to go deeper in friendship. This person will not only shape your life, but the impact of this experience will shape your character and your future in incalculable ways.
Next think about who you might touch in a similar fashion. We cannot afford to be indifferent about this, as Hulburd notes. As another friend reminded me yesterday via email, don’t underestimate the impact of small groups of committed people. In the first century, a handful of devoted disciples changed the world. Let’s do the same today.